Dr. Ofweneke, the charismatic host of TV47 and Radio47’s show Chemba, had some frank advice for wives when it comes to maintaining a balanced household dynamic.
Let’s break down his straightforward counsel:
Husband and House Girl’s Meals
Firstly he said, it’s important for wives to understand that their husbands should not partake in house girl’s meals.
Further, he made it clear it wasn’t about disrespect but about maintaining clear boundaries.
He asserted that it is a wife’s responsibility to ensure her man is satisfied and content.
Meals in a family become a personal choice.
Moreover, he said wives should serve their husbands and not relegate that duty either.
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House Girl’s Responsibilities
The host further added wives shouldn’t task their house girls with washing their husband’s boxers.
He emphasized This responsibility should not fall on her shoulders.
Bed-Making
When it comes to making the bed, it’s typically a shared responsibility between the couple.
While the house girl may assist with cleaning and tidying, making the bedroom is a wife’s task.
He said this is crucial for privacy and respect.
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Serving Meals
Lastly, it’s advisable not to expect your house girl to serve food to your husband.
Mealtimes provide an opportunity for family bonding, Dr Ofweneke further added serving a man soothes his ego and makes it easier for him to provide.
In essence, Dr. Ofweneke’s advice boils down to maintaining clear boundaries on wives’ roles and housegirl duties.
