In a city where cost of living keeps skyrocketing, love is no longer the only factor in marriage. A recent survey has revealed that 51% of women in Nairobi are open to entering polygamous marriages, provided they come with economic advantages.

The survey by Mwelekeo Insights suggests that financial stability is a key factor in modern relationships, especially in urban settings where the cost of living continues to rise.

Financial pressure driving change

With high inflation, expensive housing, and increased daily expenses, many women are prioritizing financial security in their relationships.

A large percentage of the 2,687 women who took part in the survey argue that polygamy offers shared responsibilities, reducing the financial burden on one spouse. “If the man can provide for all of us comfortably, then why not?” an Instagram user comments.

Cultural and religious perspectives

Polygamy is deeply rooted in African traditions and remains legal in Kenya.

Some religious groups, particularly in Islam and certain African traditional beliefs, support it. However, critics argue that modern relationships should focus on emotional connections rather than financial gain.

Debate on women’s independence

While some see economic-driven polygamy as a practical choice, others argue it undermines women’s financial independence as women should strive for economic empowerment rather than depending on a shared husband for stability.

Men’s take on the trend

Men have mixed reactions. Some embrace it, seeing it as a way to expand their legacy, while others fear the financial strain.

“It’s already hard maintaining one wife—having two or three is a bigger responsibility,” a Nairobi businessman shared.

As economic realities shape relationships, polygamy could gain more acceptance. Whether this trend is sustainable or just a response to tough financial times remains to be seen.

The survey released on February 25, 2025 targeted women aged 18-30 from diverse socioeconomic backgrounds residing in Nairobi.