Ninah, a member of Wapendwa Muziki, has urged her husband, Mesh, to carry himself with more confidence when they attend events together.

In a candid video shared on social media, Ninah expressed her frustration over Mesh’s emotional reactions, which she believes sometimes it is excessive.

“I don’t like how you act as if you’re not composed,” she said. Recalling a specific moment, she added, “The other day, they surprised us with a house makeover, and you cried like a child. I want you to be strong—the way you talk, the way you walk. I don’t like you showing too many emotions.”

Mesh defended his reaction, explaining that his tears were a genuine expression of gratitude and emotion. However, Ninah stood her ground, saying his emotional display was over the top.

The video sparked mixed reactions online. Some social media users sided with Ninah, agreeing that composure in public is important.

Others accused her of being too harsh, suggesting she should appreciate her husband’s emotional vulnerability.

As the debate continues, the couple’s interaction has become a hot topic, shedding light on the fine balance between emotional expression and societal expectations in relationships.

Social media users had diverse reactions:

Anne Njogu supported Mesh, saying, “An emotional man is a good man! Let him be, let him express his emotions. You can be the strong one in the relationship, and that’s okay!”

“Alright, take two! Men, watch out: the ladies are now telling you how to be men—this game is rigged, guys!”

Glorygg offered constructive advice, writing, “Give him confidence without insulting him.”

The video has ignited debates about gender roles and emotional expression in relationships. While some argue for allowing men to show vulnerability, others emphasize the importance of composure in public settings.

Below is what Shornarwa had to say about this: