Comedian Oga Obinna has stepped forward to defend Rachael Otuoma, the widow of late footballer Ezekiel Otuoma, who succumbed to Motor Neurone Disease (MND).
Rachael has faced harsh online criticism regarding her caregiving and family responsibilities following her husband’s passing.
In an emotional video shared on Instagram, Obinna praised Rachael for her steadfast dedication during Otuoma’s illness.
He described her role as both exhausting and isolating, emphasizing the immense responsibility she carried.
“I saw Rachael stand by Otuoma. Many women would have walked away, but she stayed.
This was a 24-hour job. She had no personal life of her own,” Obinna remarked.
Frustrated by the negative online commentary surrounding Rachael’s caregiving, Obinna questioned the critics’ contributions during the family’s struggles.
“If you felt she wasn’t doing it right, why didn’t you step in and help?”
Caregiver’s fatigue
Reflecting on his own experience, Obinna highlighted the emotional and physical toll caregiving takes.
“I took care of my grandfather before he passed away, and it was one of the hardest things I’ve ever done,” he admitted.
He urged people to show compassion and avoid unnecessary judgment. “Rachael is grieving. She’s stressed. Why focus on the negative when she’s already going through so much?”
Obinna also tackled claims that Rachael should be responsible for Otuoma’s mother, who is allegedly living in poverty.
He firmly stated that such expectations are misplaced.
“Otuoma’s mother is not Rachael’s responsibility, just like my wife’s mother is not mine,” he said.
Instead of pointing fingers, Obinna challenged those concerned to take action.
“If you feel she hasn’t supported Otuoma’s mother enough, why don’t you step in and help?”
A Heartfelt Message of Encouragement
Obinna concluded with a message of support and encouragement for Rachael.
“You’ve done an incredible job, Rachael. Live your life and focus on healing,” he advised.
Meanwhile, preparations for Ezekiel Otuoma’s burial are ongoing, as loved ones continue to mourn his loss.