Sarah Kabu, the Managing Director of Bonfire Adventures, has sparked a big debate with her thoughts on cheating.
In a recent interview on the Hey Girl podcast, Sarah shared her opinion that men who cheat still truly love their wives.
She believes that even if a man steps out of his marriage, it doesn’t mean he wants to leave his wife.
“Most married men dearly love their wives,” Sarah said. “He put a ring on your finger, and he hasn’t chased you away. Even if he cheats, deep down he truly loves you.”
Sarah also pointed out that many men don’t end up leaving their wives for the women they cheat with.
She argued that married men still prioritize their wives. “They put their wives’ names under their investments, not the side chicks’,” she added, using examples from politics to back her point.
When asked why men cheat, Sarah said it’s about curiosity. “They are just exploring. Some want to see different things, it’s a fetish,” she explained.
However, not everyone agrees with Sarah. On the same podcast, hosts Eve Mungai and Liz Jackson disagreed with her stance, calling it outdated.
Eve shared that modern women are no longer willing to stay in relationships with cheating partners.
“My mom used to say, ‘Just endure a little,’” Eve said. “But now, I’ve taught her that it’s not about enduring, it’s about being happy in your marriage.”
