South African-based Ugandan socialite Zari Hassan has stirred up conversations after sharing a cryptic post on Instagram.

These was days following a public fallout with her husband, Shakib Cham Lutaaya.

Zari’s post hinted at the secretive nature of relationships, particularly the contrasting ways men and women handle their personal affairs.

In her post, Zari remarked, “Women are secretly investing while men are secretly building families.”

This statement, accompanied by a pointed caption, “Take a seat, we are not on the same level,” left many of her followers guessing at the deeper meaning behind her words.

Without going into details, Zari’s message appeared to draw attention to the different priorities and approaches that men and women bring to their relationships.

The timing of Zari’s post has fueled speculation, as it comes on the heels of a public disagreement between her and Shakib that quickly became the subject of public discussion.

While some believe Zari’s words reflect broader societal observations.

others suspect they stem from her own experiences, particularly in light of recent tensions with her husband.

The rift between the couple reportedly began after Zari questioned Shakib’s insecurities.

Especially following a disagreement sparked by the presence of her ex, Diamond Platnumz, at their daughter Tiffah’s birthday celebration in Pretoria.

Zari expressed frustration over Shakib’s jealousy, making it clear that Diamond, who is her former partner and the father of two of her children, is not in competition with him.

In a heated exchange, Zari candidly told Shakib, “I don’t think I’m for you. I’m very secure, and I chose you.

But with your insecurities, if you’re thinking otherwise, then maybe you should find someone on your level. What do you bring to the table for me to be here proving myself?”

She further emphasized that despite receiving interest from influential figures, including presidential candidates, she chose to be with Shakib.

“You probably need me to send you text messages of men, presidential candidates…” she added, highlighting her decision to stay committed to Shakib.

In response to the drama, Shakib denied rumours that Zari was financially supporting him, even going as far as to call her a miser.

He claimed that Zari had only given him money once during a trip to Tanzania, clarifying, “The only thing I’ve gained from that woman is fame.”