In a no-nonsense moment on TV47 and Radio47, the charismatic show host, Dr. Ofweneke, dished out some blunt advice to men.
He kept it clear and simple: choose your friends wisely, because the wrong ones can wreck your life.
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“Men, steer clear of friends who can’t zip it,” Dr Ofweneke urged during his show.
He emphasized that those friends who make your private matters their prime focus are nothing but trouble waiting to happen.
Dr Ofweneke said they’ll mess with your life and happiness, meddling where they shouldn’t.
And then, he dropped another truth bomb: avoid the opportunists in your friend circle.
These folks are like parasites, only hanging around to use you for their gain.
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But when you’re in need, when you reach out for a helping hand, they’re nowhere to be found. Fair-weather friends, as they say.
In a world buzzing with distractions and fleeting connections, this advice serves as a reminder to be discerning in friendship.
It’s about surrounding yourself with the kind of people who genuinely care, who respect your boundaries, and who stand by you when the chips are down. Friendship, after all, is a two-way street.
So, take a cue from Dr. Ofweneke: befriend those who know the value of discretion, who keep your secrets safe, and who aren’t just around for personal gains.
Quality over quantity, always. Your circle should lift you up, not weigh you down. Your friends should be your cheerleaders, not your critics.
In the end, it’s about finding the right companions for life’s journey—ones who add joy, support, and loyalty to your story. Choose wisely, for in true friendship, you find a treasure worth more than gold.