In an age where standards for men are high, the value of men is perceived to be low and negligible.
Most of you have heard the female gender throw terms around to assign a high value to themselves.
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Some of these terms are like “I am the prize” or “What I bring to this relationship is myself”
-Men are the prize-
An American YouTuber Olivia Alexa has boldly stated that struggling men are the Prize.
She stated that many women want the world and end up not paying attention to the men who get by working hard towards their goals.
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Alexa said that these men who get less recognition since they are struggling, make the world go round.
Furthermore, she clarifies that struggling men are not just those facing financial struggles but also those facing life struggles.
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She clarifies that struggling men are those working hard and pushing but the world keeps putting them down
Alexa clears the air with the different types of misconceptions about struggling men
1. They are losers
“Every man will face struggles, there is no way around it,” Alexa said.
She terms this misconception as Ludacris, a man should not be defined by his struggle but by how he responds to his struggle.
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2. Struggling men can’t provide
Coincidentally Alexa puts it that, A struggling man will not be able to buy the world.
She clarifies that the problem is not him buying the world but women who want the world at the expense of a man who has value.
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3. Struggling men lack ambition
“Struggling men are some of the most ambitious people and men you will ever meet,” Alexa said
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These men have dreams and goals which they are working to achieve. These men have their sights high since they understand why they are struggling.
The reality
Naturally, for men today, the stakes have never been higher. A man’s level of attractiveness is based on how deep his wallet is.
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You will hear comments such as “A man must be tall dark and handsome” or “I don’t date broke men” defining what a man is.
Trending Video
Coincidentally, a video popped up online of a young man being thrown out by a girl. The girl seemed to have been housing the young man.
However, from the video posted the young girl had gotten tired of housing the sad fellow. Surprisingly, the video shows the girl viciously putting the man out.
![Young girl kicking out boyfriend from her house.](https://capemedia.africa/wp-content/uploads/2023/08/P-5-1024x536.png)
Nonetheless, what caught people’s attention was how the young man kept begging asking for a bit of time and understanding.
In a follow-up, content creator Andrew Kibe reacted to the video on his platform. He termed the young man’s mentality as weak and framed on victimhood for even recording the incident.
In brief, In today’s age, are men the prize?